RUMINATIONS is NEEL’s diary. Each entry from it will share the moments of soul-searching from Neel’s life. Hope his introspection becomes a source of motivation for others.
Diary Entry: …24th Dec’17…0250 hrs…with All my IMPERFECTIONS
Once again the sleepless nights haunt me as I lay awake on my bed with my diary beside me and your memories within me. I have been holding the pen for quite some time now yet have been unable to scribble anything…neither the laments of this heart…nor the rants of this hate. The bombarding thoughts have rendered me helpless because the moment I decide to hold on to one of them, it just disappears leaving me something more intense than the previous, drowning me again in its abyss. Then as the certainty of the resentment for you fills me in, the next instant your smile flashes past me like a fleeting second, eliminating every last trickle of hatred from each of my cells.
Damn! just one smile is enough to wash away the years of the pain…betryal…misunderstandings…confusions…only to patch them up with moments of ephemeral love.
Well, if you think I am going to fill this entry with the whinings of my lost love, then you will have to rethink and keep continuing to read it. I am sure you are going to relate to whatever I write henceforth.
There are so many collaterals involved when you decide to build a relationship with someone, be it any kind of relation, that upon its failure you either get scars of maturity for life or scars of a noose around your neck. I do really hope that the no one chooses the second option as it is the undisputed gesture of cowardice and that is not acceptable or justifiable at all. Let me explain a bit more about the invisible collaterals that are involved in any commitment. This one big basket of every good thing that you experience while you are in that relationship, such as trust that grows stronger with every other day, the compromises that you start to make to hold on to the thread, the sacrifices you make since your priorities take a backseat, the care and the concern, the love and the affection. Amidst all these intangible entities, you start to transform…transform into someone you want to be the perfect person for the other…all for the aim to be just ACCEPTED.
But, then by that point of time, in your journey of so-called your relationship, you have lost the most important thing that once defined you and that is YOU…
CONFUSED??? well, the more you try to be the perfect guy for your partner, the more you drift away from your individuality and originality…your sole unique identity that defines you…transforming into something that is just a mirage of your illusions.
HAVEN’T we all done this sometime in our life?? If not, then I must say you have been quite fortunate and virgin in front of the upcoming Wrath of life or maybe you are just naive and don’t want to accept it. Anyways, continuing with the story of collaterals, I left out the most important and devastating one…CAN YOU GUESS? COMMENT BELOW NOW BEFORE READING AHEAD!!!
Yeah! the most devastating of the collaterals in any relationship is EXPECTATIONS…
Fuck U Expectations! This is one of the most painful ones because it lays the foundation for the failures in a relationship. The expectation of getting loved the same as you do…the expectations of honesty and sincerity as you show…the expectations of compromise and sacrifice to the same intensity as you did…the expectations of having the perfect partner for yourself…the expectations of every little and large feelings to be expressed as you showed…fucks you right into your worst spot and that is the fragile and thin thread of your relation.
SO WHAT!!! WHAT SHOULD A PERSON DO???
The answer has been the most simple one and always the same –
BE JUST YOURSELF…Don’t veil yourself with fakeness…Don’t hide behind the unsustainable attractions…Don’t try to be the best choice available…
When someone accepts you in all true sense, he/she accepts the REAL_YOU and not the MADE UP-YOU. Show then your real heart and your true soul. Don’t feel scared to stand cloaked with your vulnerable weaknesses because maybe the weakness in you was meant to find the strengths in her/his…the broken fragments in you were waiting with its rough edges to be smoothened with the broken shards of her/his heart. Your imperfections are what differentiates you from the crowd…your blemishes are what that make the unblemished portions beautiful…your darkness is what that makes the light in you shine the brightest.
Such a relationship will have no collaterals BUT only the RESPECT…LOVE…ACCEPTANCE…and NO EXPECTATIONS…
Next time don’t think twice and wear your weaknesses with pride since if you can’t love the real you within you, how could you love someone else…?
Tell the universe today, if it is conspiring to send your partner soon to you…that
You await her/him with…
all your IMPERFECTIONS
all your FAILURES
all your FRAGILITY
all your FEARS
all your LOVE
PS: the REAL Neel 😛
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