Do you have a complicated relationship?
Does your partner make you feel worthless?
Do you keep trying hard to keep the relationship afloat?
Were you dumped by your lover for someone else?
Did he/she cheat you and you found out?
If Yes, Then, you are at the right place else you are going to find something useful for your friends who are facing such situations in their life.
Let me start off by saying that
” YOU ARE THE FUKIN MOST BEAUTIFUL AND TALENTED PERSON IN THIS WORLD”
Did I say this to cheer you up? Huh! No, not at all.
I just showed you the mirror that you had always seen since your childhood. The same mirror before which you stood and saw the most beautiful and powerful person…yes YOU…the person whom you have loved all your life until you met that special someone. The problem was that the mirror was SNOW WHITE MIRROR. It showed only the person you loved and thought was most beautiful and important in your life and so soon your reflection was replaced by your lover’s.
The bubble was so warm and exciting that you felt you found your happiness and the perfect soul mate. Everything was so planned until you became just a material either taken for granted or ultimately dumped because of someone else or you broke up when you found your so-called perfect mate hooked up with someone else. Maybe you are still in the relation ignoring and overlooking every blatant reality of your partner only to tag yourself along with him. You fear that you will choke on your feelings once you are left alone or maybe you feel he/she will return to you and things will fall into place again. Or might be you are constrained to stay with him and even if you want to get out, you feel that the cage has no key to the door.
Well, let me tell you again
YOU ARE THE HERO OF YOUR LIFE. YOU ARE SPECIAL. YOU ARE STRONG. YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL. YOU ARE BOLD. YOU ARE THE STAR. YOU ARE THE MOON. YOU ARE EVERYTHING YOU WANT YOURSELF TO BECOME INTO.
First thing first, there is no cage that can stop or shackle you. The emotional shit or the threatening shit that binds you in the relationship is just a mind game that is being played on you. No one can stop you from making a choice that you want really bad to make in your life.
Secondly, there is no scope of being judged in love. True love is based on pure trust and complete acceptance. So the moment you feel you are judged, don’t accept and play along. Speak up and move on since the person is not worth your love. There has to be always a compromise in all relationships and that too from both sides. If that is absent then never can any relation work.
Remeber To Judge is To Disrespect. and you don’t want someone who would disrespect you.
Thirdly, never forget that THE MIRROR should always reflect you and no one else. Love yourself first if you want others to love you. When you love yourself, you will feel an innate power…a power that would bolster self-confidence…a confidence that will make you realize that no matter what may come, you are strong enough to face everything in life…even the worst breakups and confrontations.
Finally, keep the tears safe because you will need it when a worthy and true love would depart as a mortal being from earth…when time and situation would snatch him/her away since we all are just mortal beings living a life in the blink of this billion years old universe. Shedding tears for the unworthy and essential breakups and the undeserving people in your life is not worth. Don’t make them realize that they can control you and break you. Don’t prove them correct by falling in their bluff. Think that you have escaped the clutches of unwanted memories and people, only to meet the one truly worthy and deserving person in your life. Thank him/her to make you realize not to blindly trust anyone ever again and never to forget to love ourselves ever. Show them that they were just the dusty milestones in your life that would soon be covered in dirt that you leave behind while you finally walk and move on towards the best things in your life.
So, dear heart-brokens and dear caged-hearts,
Fly away now. Break free now. You are meant to be the BEST VERSION of yourself. DONT KEEP THAT BEST VERSION WAITING!
PS: Yes! You are my WARRIOR! You have accepted your scars and have decided to SHOW THE WORLD that YOU are A FUKIN CHAMPION! Yes, you are…you will be always…
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